As y’all know, I don’t often do the list thing, and I certainly don't do the short, snappy ten-point list. If this post is too long and overwhelming, bookmark it, come back later, take your own notes. Print it out and highlight. Print it and cut it into pieces, stuff them in a box, and randomly take one out when you feel like. Or heck, print it and line your cat's litter box with it, then go back out to Google and find someone who writes short, handy lists. I don't. You remem